this is joan a 21-29 yr old german woman
she became famous on tumblr around 2014-2015 for her extreme self harm under the user @/coldnessinmyheart. We’re still unsure if she’s alive or dead but i assume she is no longer with us.
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This is discusting I feel bad for the girl...
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If I remember correctly, she was sexually abused from a young age by a family member and self harmed like this to make herself so ugly nobody would want to rape her again. Poor thing. This is the worst case of self harm I’ve ever seen. I hope wherever she is, dead or alive, she’s found help or peace.
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I wish we could transfer the cuts from her to that fucking family member. Fucking tragic.
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Same
The ppl who did that should kts (full offence to them) noone can change my mind.
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Same. Like if your gonna torture somebody dont make yourself go through it in a worse form when theres a pig that can squeal and put on a show in front of u
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Poor girl :( I wish I could just give her a big hug
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Hope shes okay.even if shes dead,Ruhe in Frieden hoffe du hast deinen Frieden gefunden.
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BRO IVE BEEN LOOKING FOR THIS GIRL??? I SAW THE THIGH ONES AT LIKE 13 AND THEY HAVENT LEFT MY MIND it absolutely fucked me up but i couldnt figure out if i had made it up in my head or not
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gtfo flies
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Reminds me of the picker girl who picked off her legs.
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her name was Kelly
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WAS
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HER ARM LOOKED LIKE A STACK OF PRINGLE CHIPS.
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OR KEBAB!
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Mmmm… Pringle breaded kebabs
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Glad she put that Hello Kitty bandaid on there, it probably helped a lot 👍 Wouldn't want it opening back up
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Poor girl she didnt deserve to go through all of that I hope she either rest in peace or that she recovered
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i think she's dead :,(
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That’s terrible it makes me wanna quit knowing I’ll reach that point at some point of k don’t quit
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At the first sight I thought she had fur on her arm
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i remember seeing her on tumblr. i should look into other old tumblr stuff and maybe post.....
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yeah i thought this case of self harm was pretty shocking so i decided to post it since most have forgotten abt her.
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that shit cannot be real
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it is
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Those are great
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Did… did someone actually just report snappy?
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Justice.
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Sad.
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Nahh
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if there’s any more info you guys know about her please comment!
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I'm not sure but I've heard she's okay now and doing much better mentally
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i'm pretty sure she's dead
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bug on my screen
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damn, forgot about her.
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thanks to whoever sent shit 😒 ur so funny
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Poor s o.b.
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Why are Germans like this? It’s like an entire country full of glitchy robots designed to imitate people.
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Mangelnde Hilfe bei der psychischen Gesundheit.. und nicht so gut polizei
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Germany sucks, people and school system. Have a friend, who got raped too and the police just didn't give a shit, saying, that she 'might be making all of this up'.
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who knows 😓
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owwie
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😢😢😢
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holy fuck dude, imagine how bad your life must be to do this shit online.
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it’s upsetting
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Because of these girls some people(emo community specifically) be glorrifying these cuts as a fashion statement....low key idk how to feel considering i use to cut myself too
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yo,us in the emo scene communitity,we do NOT!!!! glorize that shit. only edgelords do.
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I needed that update thank you
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no its because she was raped and wanted to deform herself so she wasnt raped again
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exactly, it’s glorified almost everywhere, not saying people can’t do whatever they want but it’s definitely a bad addiction to get into
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her family and the people around here must have seen the cuts on her arms and legs, fucking ignorants pieces of shit
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Just because they see the scars doesn't mean they can help her. People have tried to help her. You can't help someone who doesn't want to be helped. Joan is a whole ass adult what she chooses to do is on her, not a burden for her family to take on.
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i know it's easier to say than done but they could've called a mental institution or made her go to therapy or anything that could help her
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hope she gets better
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I imagine daddy licked and came all over her little body
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ur weird asffff
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Her arms look like a wrinkly old wang. RIP.
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Self harm shouldn’t be encouraged or even Inspired on this site, it’s a terrible thing and I hate it.
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I hate you. And yet here you are. Self harm is not encouraged and will never be.
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It will be, the internet is a wide place and you appear to not understand how much of this site you don’t know about that still encourages it.
I was making a statement, I was supporting the choice of not supporting self harm, I don’t get why you decided to add nothing to the conversation.
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You have added less to this conversation than I have. People who do encourage self harm do exist, but I choose to believe that they are just incoherent idiots who don’t understand how the world works, therefore, don’t exist to me, just like how you don’t understand how grammar works. I have no clue what you stated / said in your first paragraph.obviously no one in their right or wrong mind would encourage self harm. Considering the fact that no mention of encouraging of any self harm was mentioned in the first place (the original post) I assumed that you pulled your first statement in your comment “self harm should not be encouraged or even inspired on this sight” straight out of your ass. If you don’t want to reach self harm, block the flair and don’t share. No one gives a flying fuck about what you do or don’t like.
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Lecturing me about grammar when you make several grammar mistakes in that same paragraph (EDIT: misused punctuation, didn’t use speech correctly, yet they say I don’t know how grammar works.)
Instead of pulling out an actual logical paragraph, you talked about how some people do encourage self harm and 2 sentences later you claimed the exact opposite, “Nobody in the right or wrong mind would encourage self harm.”
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I wrote that no one in there right or wrong mind would encourage self harm simply because I believe that even in your wrong mind, I can’t believe that people would actually tell someone to do that. Forgive me for not making that clearer. I feel like that is so inhumane that someone could actually say those things. But I am confused about why you are concerned for me. Don’t get me wrong I do want to come to a peaceful solution and I think both of us are very close into reaching that agreement.
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I mean yeah, we both have the same opinions on self harm, it’s just that you took my claim the wrong way and used it against me.
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Then I didn’t mean to, I simply thought that you were being a bitch. I realize now that you are not. Thankfully we agree now, correct.
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I’m still quite angry about that whole, “Nobody gives a flying fuck.” But sure.
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She had demons for sho
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Need me one like that.
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what
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You heard me.
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oh fr
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No cap. On god. Deadass. Girls like that are bussin’.
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sobbing.
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😎
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us because we are literally kissing
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Well at least she did it right
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